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Magic and Teenagers

by tylluanpenry @ Tuesday, 07. Aug, 2007 - 08:50:41

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I’m not a magus, high priestess or Great Lady of the Greenwood. I don’t dress in black, wear pentacle earrings or exclaim ‘Oh goddess!’ when I drop a brick on my foot. In fact, I’d probably get lost in a crowd of three, and that’s just the way I like it. If you passed me in the street you wouldn’t give me a second look. You certainly wouldn’t think I was a witch or that I had taught magic for several decades.

Now I don’t know what your personal view of magic is. Most people fall into one of the following categories:
1. I believe wholeheartedly.
2. I think it’s possible but I haven’t done magic myself and I don’t intend to.
3. The very idea of magic freaks me out. You shouldn’t dabble.
4. I think it’s a load of rubbish and anyone who believes in it is mentally deficient.
5. Magic doesn’t exist.

All these viewpoints exist – and more. I can only ever write from my own point of view and I believe in magic because (a) I’ve witnessed it happening (b) I’ve done it myself. Believe me, I’ve looked for other explanations. After all, believing in magic wasn’t exactly something you’d admit to until a few years ago. After so long keeping my magical interests confined to those who could be trusted not to laugh or string my up on the nearest gallows, I must say it’s come as a nice surprise.

Over the years my students of magic have come in all shapes and sizes, all ages and backgrounds. But until recently, I’ve always been very reluctant to teach teenagers. It’s not that I feel they’re too immature to understand magical concepts. Not at all. If a teenager can cope with school, juggle exams, a part time job and learning to drive they can cope just as well with elementary magic as someone ten years older. No, my problem is not their understanding nor their maturity. What worries me is their power.

You see, whether we like it or not, children and teenagers are already doing magic under our noses. Older students can take years to get to grips with visualisation, but five year olds have been generating thought forms ever since they could first create an imaginary friend or play games of make believe.

So teaching magic to the average adolescent is a bit like trying to tame a wild horse: exhilarating yes, but also exhausting and occasionally dangerous. Many teenagers are brimming over with so much power that if they start dabbling in magic without proper guidance they could well blow a psychic fuse – theirs or someone else’s!

So for years I refused to teach teens. Even when they asked me nicely. But over the years I realised that I was being unfair. Yes, they were powerful, they were challenging, but without proper guidance they were extremely vulnerable. And proper tuition, geared to their specific needs is not all that easy to come by.

Now it’s a sad fact of life that there are plenty of people who will exploit you. Some garages will exploit you when your car needs vital repairs, politicians will exploit you when they think they’ve got your vote in their pocket. And there are ‘Teachers of Magick’ who will exploit a young person’s desire to learn, knowing they are limited in their choice of teachers.

Despite the grand titles they award themselves, such teachers are often not all that experienced and some have a very unbalanced view of magic. Many see spells as the answer to all life’s problems so the moment they spot something that could be remotely described as a crisis they whip out their Book of Shadows and start looking for an incantation to deal with it. Some even see magical attacks and manufacture ‘witch wars’ where none really exist.

On the other hand, there are those who try and occupy the moral high ground and say that you should never use magic. Some of these are so timid they cast around for other solutions ad nauseum in the hope that something – anything – will suggest itself and they won’t have to do anything magical about it.

Both extremes rather miss the point. If you want to do magic, you have to practice it and you have to learn about it thoroughly, not just play around with wands and athames and pretty crystals. You wouldn’t dream of dabbling with plumbing or rewiring the house afer all. It’s the same with magic; you have to know what you’re doing. But unless you have a family member or close friend willing to train you, you are thrown back on your own resources. Often this means your only option is looking for ‘Teen Wicca’ books in your local library. And that’s always supposing these books are in stock; the head librarian in my local library refuses to display books on paganism (or, weirdly, car maintenance) ‘in case the wrong people read them.’

Even if you do manage to find some basic books on ‘teen magic’ you have to realise their limitations. Most will teach a variety of spells but not the real ‘how and why’ that underpins all good magical practice and almost all of them have a strong bias towards Wicca which is not the be all and end all of magic. There are other, equally valid paths.

What sort of magic can people do? Almost anything, it depends what interests you. I had an aunt who did weather spells. (I don’t know why, it wasn’t as though any of the family went to sea and needed a fair wind to bring them home.) One of my grandmothers could charm warts. Another family member can change traffic lights and I’ve seen people put out street lamps by simply walking under them and ‘thinking them out.’

Before rushing off to try and turn your annoying little brother into a frog, however, remember that although you have power, at the moment it’s an untrained force. Teenagers and magic are a bit like teenagers and powerful cars – a dangerous combination. Psychically you may be powerful, but mentally you could be just as untidy as your bedrooms. Trying to perform magic while your head is full of mental and emotional clutter is like going fishing with high explosives rather than a rod and line!

Seeking the Green by Tylluan Penry, published soon by Capall Bann. For more info - watch this space!

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deleted user [Visitor]

2007-08-07 @ 09:42

What a good post. I am (1) above by the way. I wish there were more teachers like you who would teach 'the way' properly and not those who exploit the 'Buffy' effect. I've just posted about eating properly (well sort of) and it's all about leading by example, the older I get, the more I realise that though I rebelled against my parents values - I have become them. Good teachers are precious.

tylluanpenrytylluanpenry pro
2007-08-07 @ 12:37

Thank you! I agree that good teachers are precious and I've always tried to be responsible when teaching magic. Unfortunately the Buffy and Charmed effect means that this isn't the sort of magic some people want to learn! And this is a pity because teenagers have this crazy combination of power and vulnerability which leaves them wide open to exploitation.

SaffronicaSaffronica [Member]
2007-08-07 @ 11:12

I believe in magic. I would love to learn more about it. Speaking of people walking under lamp posts and 'thinking them off' reminded me why I don't wear normal watches anymore. I can wear digital watches but I can never find out that was lady-like, they are all usually sport watches.

With all normal lithium battery watches with hands the move, I can wear them for about a week and they stop. I've also had on a couple of occasions afer the week that they start to go backwards. It seems as though I drain the lithium battery.

Now a lithium battery is basically an energy source to power the watch and energy can't be destroyed, only diverted or turned into something else. If this is the case then, what happens to the lithium that I 'drain'? It can't disappear so what happenes to it? Where does it go? As you can see I've thought about this quite a bit!

Another form of 'weirdness' is the heat that comes off the palm of my hands. It doesn't 'burn' as such but people can feel this heat. I experimented on a few close friends. I place my hand over their cheek/bare arm/above their hand and I don't make contact with their skin. They almost immediatelty feel heat coming from my hand and if I move my hand slowly closer then further away a few times they have said they can also feel a sort of spongy resistance, very weak but it is definitely there. If left there for longer the feeling becomes discomforting and I draw away. I would love to find out what this could be.

Again I am sorry about my comment, it was just meant to touch on these things but I felt compelled to tell it all and just clog your blog up with my nattering! :)

tylluanpenrytylluanpenry pro
2007-08-07 @ 12:40

I can sympathise with you about watches - I have a similar problem. I must have spent a fortune on them over the years. It's reached the stage when nobody in the family would let me borrow their watch because they knew what was going to happen. I don't know where the energy goes nor exactly why we drain it - with the old fashioned wind up watches one could argue that it was some sort of magnetic effect. Not sure what to think about battery operated ones though (and I still stop those.)

The story about the heat was interesting. I've heard healers mention something similar. Have you ever tried giving healing?

With me its static. It makes my life a misery sometimes. Giving and getting shocks isn't the best way of making friends!

deleted user [Visitor]

2007-08-07 @ 12:47

I'm a believer..after all what is quantum physics but proof that its true!

tylluanpenrytylluanpenry pro
2007-08-07 @ 20:29

I'm glad you're a believer - but I have to confess I know nothing at all about quantum physics!!! ;-)

deleted user [Visitor]

2007-08-11 @ 00:50

http://www.whatthebleep.com/...that should work I hope ..a film that is about quantum physics but its not boring science stuff in that way..at all Its crazy and amazing and its totally magical and very educational :yes: I think you would find it fascinating..

deleted user [Visitor]

2007-08-11 @ 00:51

http://www.whatthebleep.com/
ooopps this one should work sorry

tylluanpenrytylluanpenry pro
2007-08-11 @ 09:22

Thank you! I'll give it a try!

innuswamiinnuswami [Member]
2007-08-11 @ 06:07

Recently I chanced upon your blog and I am quite impressed with your views. I have many times felt the presence of some benevolent force guiding my destiny but there can be no conclusive proof for it. I consider this as some divine force taking me through the many difficulties of life. I have never regretted why I had to be subjected to a difficult situation or why I made a wrong decision to land in a certain situation, because these experiences have, I think, made me wiser in the long run.

The power of human faculties is limited to just four or five dimensions at best and beyond that even the sharpest of human intellect cannot understand! Yet we think that we know everything and we are the masters of our future!

tylluanpenrytylluanpenry pro
2007-08-11 @ 09:24

Thank you! I think we are all on a spiritual path of some sort- the mistake many people make is in thinking there is 'One size fits all' - and as you suggest, I believe all experiences, good, bad, difficult and even the downright surreal come to teach us.

Smith [Visitor]

2007-12-22 @ 16:27

Nice job done here ! Keep up the good work ! I'll always be a believer ! plumbing repair

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